I am thankful for dates with my Dad. I can't remember the first time we went on a date, but I know I was really young. He is one of the most polite guys I know. He always lets me pick whatever restaurant or coffee shop I want.
Especially this year, I've realized that I can talk to him about anything--even things I've never talked about with anyone else. He isn't just a good listener, though he certainly is one of those. He is genuinely good at advice. Not like those people you go to when you just want to be reaffirmed in your own intentions. Not like those people who jump down your throat with a million corrections before you even explain your side. My dad gives advice that comes from years of knowing the scriptures, and years of caring about me. When we go on dates, I love to talk with him and just listen to his wisdom. I'm thankful to God for this dad I have.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Bearing Fruit
--It's not possible unless I am abiding in Christ.
The problem for me is, I am apathetic about abiding in Christ. I get close to Him for a short time, and really exciting growth happens all over my life. Then somebody nice tells me that I'm godly, I'm doing great, and I think I have it made.
But all that good stuff in me isn't me.
"As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me."
Anything worthy in me comes from Christ. The second I start to give myself credit for what He has done is the second that I decide I don't need to abide in Him. In that second, it becomes impossible for me to bear fruit.
All I'm left with is that detestable, but stubbornly lingering pride that says "I'm godly," but has no proof to back it up. The problem is, I can go days or weeks without realizing that--get ready for this, Car--I'm not all that great.
I praise God that He has given me people to (graciously) remind me of that horrible, wonderful, liberating fact.
How I need Jesus. I need Him when I feel that I need Him. And oh, how I need Him when I feel okay.
If you feel okay, you shouldn't. You should be afraid, very afraid of your own pride. Because without Him, we are nothing.
"Whoever abides in me and I in Him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing."
John 15:4, 5
The problem for me is, I am apathetic about abiding in Christ. I get close to Him for a short time, and really exciting growth happens all over my life. Then somebody nice tells me that I'm godly, I'm doing great, and I think I have it made.
But all that good stuff in me isn't me.
"As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me."
Anything worthy in me comes from Christ. The second I start to give myself credit for what He has done is the second that I decide I don't need to abide in Him. In that second, it becomes impossible for me to bear fruit.
All I'm left with is that detestable, but stubbornly lingering pride that says "I'm godly," but has no proof to back it up. The problem is, I can go days or weeks without realizing that--get ready for this, Car--I'm not all that great.
I praise God that He has given me people to (graciously) remind me of that horrible, wonderful, liberating fact.
How I need Jesus. I need Him when I feel that I need Him. And oh, how I need Him when I feel okay.
If you feel okay, you shouldn't. You should be afraid, very afraid of your own pride. Because without Him, we are nothing.
"Whoever abides in me and I in Him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing."
John 15:4, 5
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Humbling
Thus says the Lord:
“Heaven is my throne,
and the earth is my footstool;
what is the house that you would build for me,
and what is the place of my rest?
All these things my hand has made,
and so all these things came to be,
declares the Lord.
“Heaven is my throne,
and the earth is my footstool;
what is the house that you would build for me,
and what is the place of my rest?
All these things my hand has made,
and so all these things came to be,
declares the Lord.
But this is the one to whom I will look:
he who is humble and contrite in spirit
and trembles at my word.
--Isaiah 66:1-2
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Top 17: Reasons I Am Thankful for Katelyn Ladd
17. You are hilarious--often unintentionally. You put up with me laughing at you and riding you about things like "Sick-a-go." Besides that, you are gracious enough to forget when I do something embarrassing, rather than holding it over my head.
16. You are just about the first person that I ever talked with about the Lord for an hour or more.
15. When I'm excited about something--shallow or deep--you can't wait to listen and share the excitement with me.
14. All those times I stayed at your house while my folks were gone. Those are some great memories.
13. You always claim to be less godly than other people, even when God's work in you is so blatantly obvious to the rest of us.
12. You are sensitive to the wants and needs of others. You will sacrifice of yourself even if the other person doesn't say their desires out loud.
11. You have a heart to reach out to the lost.
10. You have a greater capacity for making and keeping strong friendships than I have ever had.
9. You are always sweet and patient with your family.
8. When you are mistreated, you don't hold a grudge.
7. You have one of the softest hearts I have ever seen.
6. The smallest little poke of conviction is enough to bring you to your knees and cause you to change. A whisper from the Spirit is like a shout to you.
5. You have the joy of the Lord.
4. You are honest about your sin.
3. You are broken over your sin.
2. You see God's grace in me, and tell me about it. This builds me up and causes me to praise Him.
1. You love Jesus more with each passing year.
16. You are just about the first person that I ever talked with about the Lord for an hour or more.
15. When I'm excited about something--shallow or deep--you can't wait to listen and share the excitement with me.
14. All those times I stayed at your house while my folks were gone. Those are some great memories.
13. You always claim to be less godly than other people, even when God's work in you is so blatantly obvious to the rest of us.
12. You are sensitive to the wants and needs of others. You will sacrifice of yourself even if the other person doesn't say their desires out loud.
11. You have a heart to reach out to the lost.
10. You have a greater capacity for making and keeping strong friendships than I have ever had.
9. You are always sweet and patient with your family.
8. When you are mistreated, you don't hold a grudge.
7. You have one of the softest hearts I have ever seen.
6. The smallest little poke of conviction is enough to bring you to your knees and cause you to change. A whisper from the Spirit is like a shout to you.
5. You have the joy of the Lord.
4. You are honest about your sin.
3. You are broken over your sin.
2. You see God's grace in me, and tell me about it. This builds me up and causes me to praise Him.
1. You love Jesus more with each passing year.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Love and the Obvious
The New Commandment
A new commandment I live to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
--John 13:34-35
--John 13:34-35
Love and the Obvious
Now concerning brotherly love you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another.
--1 Thessalonians 4:9
Sometimes love seems like a difficult and confusing thing. This passage makes me wonder if that is completely my fault.
If I followed this verse, I would save myself so much trouble! I wouldn't spend so much useless time debating with my conscience over whether or not I need to include this person, or apologize to that person, or give her a call, or just leave him alone.
My problem is not that the Bible doesn't tell me how to love others—it does.
It's not that I don't have access to the Bible at virtually any time of the day—I do.
It's not like I don't have a Helper within me, activating my conscience to awareness of God's will—He's there.
Sometimes, the best advice is the simplest.
Do what you know.
If you are a believer, then God has already equipped you to know who you need to love, and how you need to do it.
An application: write down 10 names of people in your life, and next to the names, write practically how you can love them better. Write down what you already know, and ask God for new strength and motivation to actually love these people.
To image Christ to the world, love others in the obvious ways.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Love and Your Mindset
The New Commandment
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
--John 13:34-35
Love and Your Mindset
"And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."
--Col 3:14
Perfect harmony. What a concept! I have certainly not achieved this state in my relationships. Even the closest friendships I have don't sound like a perfectly blending a capella group. There are moments--and sometimes days or weeks--of discord that create a clashing, painful racket. Thank God that the reason for this disunity is so plain and obvious. If we are not in perfect harmony, then we are not loving each other as we should.
Love is incredibly important for the believer. It is so important that this passage actually directly states that it is "above" many other important godly traits. For example: "compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another"--each of these important characteristics must submit to love. Why? Because without love, it is impossible to bear even one of these Christian fruits.
So love is absolutely crucial. The context of this verse, the rest of the chapter, sheds more light on what this love means, and how it can be lived out.
The central theme of Colossians 3 is a contrast between the earthly and the heavenly. The opening statement of the chapter is this: "If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory."
Set your mind on the the things above--not the things which are on earth.
Love flows out of this simple yet profoundly impactful choice that each person makes. On what will you set your mind?
What are the things on earth?
Attention, beauty, clothes, fun, being liked, man's praise, money, pleasure, power, reputation, talents, worries.
What is above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God?
Heaven, my eternal home.
Certainly there is more to love than this, yet this simple truth could deeply impact my life and my love if I let it. Set your mind on heaven, and as the things of earth fade away, love will overflow out of your heart and into your actions.
Death to worldly thought patterns leads to a growing, godly life. "You have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator (v. 9-10)." Beginning with the mind, there is an inescapable, undefeatable new life with all new desires. If you are a believer, your life is already being renewed--in your mind's knowledge--so that you are being transformed to look like the one who made you.
If you are struggling to love anyone in your life, take comfort in the fact that your mind is already being renewed, and God will not stop untill you look like Him. And as you rest in this truth, take action: make it a priority to think about heaven every day. When that person does something annoying that drives you crazy, or makes an effort to put herself in your path when you don't want to deal with her, or shoots back a stinging remark--take a minute to set your mind on the things above, where your Savior is sitting down at the right hand of God the Father.
To image Christ to the world, be intentional about meditating on heaven, so that love will flow from your mind to your heart and out to everyone you know.
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
--John 13:34-35
Love and Your Mindset
"And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."
--Col 3:14
Perfect harmony. What a concept! I have certainly not achieved this state in my relationships. Even the closest friendships I have don't sound like a perfectly blending a capella group. There are moments--and sometimes days or weeks--of discord that create a clashing, painful racket. Thank God that the reason for this disunity is so plain and obvious. If we are not in perfect harmony, then we are not loving each other as we should.
Love is incredibly important for the believer. It is so important that this passage actually directly states that it is "above" many other important godly traits. For example: "compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another"--each of these important characteristics must submit to love. Why? Because without love, it is impossible to bear even one of these Christian fruits.
So love is absolutely crucial. The context of this verse, the rest of the chapter, sheds more light on what this love means, and how it can be lived out.
The central theme of Colossians 3 is a contrast between the earthly and the heavenly. The opening statement of the chapter is this: "If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory."
Set your mind on the the things above--not the things which are on earth.
Love flows out of this simple yet profoundly impactful choice that each person makes. On what will you set your mind?
What are the things on earth?
Attention, beauty, clothes, fun, being liked, man's praise, money, pleasure, power, reputation, talents, worries.
What is above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God?
Heaven, my eternal home.
Certainly there is more to love than this, yet this simple truth could deeply impact my life and my love if I let it. Set your mind on heaven, and as the things of earth fade away, love will overflow out of your heart and into your actions.
Death to worldly thought patterns leads to a growing, godly life. "You have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator (v. 9-10)." Beginning with the mind, there is an inescapable, undefeatable new life with all new desires. If you are a believer, your life is already being renewed--in your mind's knowledge--so that you are being transformed to look like the one who made you.
If you are struggling to love anyone in your life, take comfort in the fact that your mind is already being renewed, and God will not stop untill you look like Him. And as you rest in this truth, take action: make it a priority to think about heaven every day. When that person does something annoying that drives you crazy, or makes an effort to put herself in your path when you don't want to deal with her, or shoots back a stinging remark--take a minute to set your mind on the things above, where your Savior is sitting down at the right hand of God the Father.
To image Christ to the world, be intentional about meditating on heaven, so that love will flow from your mind to your heart and out to everyone you know.
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Love and the Law
The New Commandment
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
--John 13: 31-35
Love and the Law
Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, "You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet," and any other commandment are summed up in this word: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
--Romans 13:8-10
We owe it to God to fulfill His law. Complete and total obedience to Him, from now until the day we die, would still not be perfect enough, for we have disobeyed Him already enough to earn Hell thousands of times. In this passage, we find the broad category under which much of God's law falls: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself."
Jesus has a higher standard than just "Don't have an affair" or "Don't kill anybody." In His most famous sermon, He revealed that He considers lust to be adultery and hatred to be murder. So it isn't enough for us to just abstain from heinous, obviously despicable crimes that would earn us shame from other people. That in itself is not enough to pay what we owe. The perfect obedience which is our debt consists of a heart that loves.
If love is the fulfilling of the law, then I am a law-breaker.
Looking at these four sins, I find just how guilty I am of transgressing God's commandments.
Adultery. There is more to lust than just looking at someone with impure desires in your heart. There is a sense in which any relationship you have can contribute to indulging your cravings for attention. One of the places this can be most obvious is in relationships with people of the opposite gender. My selfish heart can and does seek to gratify itself in the attention of men. God tells me that this is not only a way to rack up debt against Him, but it is in fact a refusal to pay what I owe to other people in my life. If you see someone--anyone--in your life as a source of self-gratification, then your lust for your own glory is actively hindering you from loving that person. No matter how much you may "like" that guy or girl, the only person you are loving is yourself.
Murder. The sin of hatred is equally dangerous and equally disguisable. Almost no one I know has ever actually taken someone else's life. Yet we all have feelings of anger, bitterness, and un-love that we would be appalled to see anyone find out. Daily, someone I know does something that causes the mercury in my anger-meter to push to the top. I may ignore the person--may even be silent--but inside I am hot with wrath. I have literally thought before of someone in my life, "I hate ____." I have done this multiple times. Even more numerous are the instances in which I have said, "I hate it when _____ does ____." My open complaint reveals that I love my own unchallenged comfort more than I love the person who challenged it.
Coveting and Stealing. The last two breakable laws seem to go hand in hand--"You shall not covet" and "You shall not steal." How many times have I wanted something that someone else has? To limit this to material possessions would be (for me) a major cop-out. I have found myself capable of being jealous of anything and everything. Someone's car or clothes or paycheck--sure. Someone's abilities, popularity, or the favor they enjoy--even more prevalent. I often like to see the sin of jealousy as a sin against God. After all, I am being discontent with His numerous gifts. But I am remiss if I don't consider this sin as a lack of love towards others. Have you ever been actively envious of someone in your life, and continued to love them perfectly, or even treat them well externally? It's not just difficult. It's impossible. To covet someone, or competitively fight to get what they have is to deny them your love.
Each of these sins jars me with the realization that I do not love as I should. Every day, instead of paying God and others the debt that I owe, I am increasing my deficit by being lustful, hateful, and jealous. A comparison to Jesus' law reveals that I am hopelessly behind on laying down even a fraction of the payment He is due.
But praise be to Jesus--He has paid our debts.
Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.
--Matthew 5:17
Not only does Jesus establish the law of love--He follows it to the letter. In His perfect obedience, we are free to enjoy God's favor even though we cannot obey perfectly. And because our Savior lives in us, we know that He will help us to pay back what we owe.
To image Christ to the world, rely on His power to help you obey the law.
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